Being timid felt did nice in one way.

Yes, sometimes I feel that people treated me nicer when I was more timid before. Trying to talk more, some people seem to give me grim look, don't understand. Timid then people be nice to you, brave and people don't care about you. That's what I am feeling.

But I there is another view to look at, which is for me to be nice to people, not expecting people to be nice to me.

And there is another view, being nice is not everything, it is only appearance and it is only marketing, like a promise for true value, but in it self no value. What am I shock sediri about here?

Moving house.